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About This Workshop

Many people in toxic relationships lose sight of what’s going on because they are so immersed in the day-to-day. Just trying to survive and take care of everyone else. Because abuse often occurs gradually, it can be hard to recognize just how serious things might have become.

But that doesn’t mean there’s nothing you can do! In this workshop, we will begin to strip your blinders off and introduce some of the top dangers for people involved with toxic partners. We’ll teach you how to recognize the dangers in your own relationship, and motivate you to take action.

With this workshop, you’ll learn the short- and long-term effects of being involved with a toxic person for both yourself and your children. We’ll make sure that you know to identify toxic behavior and how it manifests itself in specific ways so that you can learn what to expect in order to realistically prepare and make plans to protect yourself and your loved ones.

Course curriculum

  • 1

    Introduction

    • Intro, Workshop Goals

    • Journal Prompt #1

  • 2

    An Urgent Matter

    • Why This is So Important

  • 3

    A Cycle of Misery

    • A Cycle of Misery

  • 4

    Physical Danger

    • Physical Danger

  • 5

    The Threat to Kids

    • The Threat to Kids

    • Journal Prompt #2

  • 6

    Wasted Money

    • Wasted Money

  • 7

    Wasted Time

    • Wasted Time

  • 8

    Unfavorable Legal Outcome

    • Unfavorable Legal Outcome

  • 9

    Quality of Life "After"

    • Quality of Life "After"

  • 10

    Next Steps

    • Wrapup, Next Steps, Goals Review

  • 11

    Q&A

    • Q&A part 1 (Facebook Live)

    • Q&A part 2 (Instagram Questions)

  • 12

    Supplemental Materials

    • Journal Prompts Worksheet

    • Workshop Notes

    • Workshop Slides

    • Workshop Goals

    • Personality Disorders Gaining Importance in Recent Legal Cases — High Conflict Institute

Workshop Hosts

Lisa & Chris: "The Recovery Couple"

Co-Founder

Lisa Johnson

My toxic marriage lasted for nearly two decades, and I had no idea what I was actually dealing with until after I got out!

I am a state-certified domestic violence advocate and trained crisis counselor, with a background in education. I was able to use these skills to successfully represent myself in court for the past few years since the divorce, battling an ex who has disobeyed multiple court orders without consequence (yet!).

Even though I live the “warrior” lifestyle, I’ve managed to balance that with sole parenting my two nearly adult children, running a business in fashion, and loving life with Chris, who makes me laugh more than anyone.

Co-Founder

Chris Barry

I was with a severe malignant narcissist for 14 years and still need to deal with her because we have two teenagers together. That's the bad news.

The GOOD news is that I'm out, and with firm boundaries in place, have very little contact with my ex. Best of all, I've found true love with Lisa and can model a healthy relationship for all of our kids.

Today, Lisa and I are dedicated to offering hope, guidance, and community to others struggling with toxic relationships so they can find the strength they need to sanity back and get out faster, cheaper, and with less pain.

FAQ

  • How long will this take? I don't have free time.

    How much time are you already spending on worrying, arguing, Googling your partner's irrational behaviors, and losing sleep? Each of our course modules is divided into bite-size chunks, which you can listen to at your convenience (totaling about two hours.)

  • I'm just looking for information. I think I can get through this myself.

    We got through it on our own, but we suffered unnecessarily along the way. Our goal in launching this program is to use our expert knowledge to get you through it faster, cheaper, better, and with less pain than if you try to do it on your own.

  • Do you have a mobile app?

    Not yet, but the learning platform that BTGO's Sanity School is built on is fully responsive for mobile devices and should offer a great learning experience on any device.

  • Why do you charge for your workshops?

    There's a ton of free information available on the internet, some good, some not so good. We strive to do the best job of cutting through all the noise and giving you the most helpful guidance and support that you'll find anywhere. This is a full-time effort for us, and we simply need to earn an income from it. With all of that said, we feel that our workshops are priced very reasonably and affordably, and are a great value.

Testimonials

What real people are saying about Been There Got Out

“Thank you… It’s been a roller coaster but hoping I'll get it together and be able to say it's all in the past, smile, and get ‘me’ back. You guys are truly amazing!”

“Omigosh I am so happy to have found you both. I am not alone! I’ve said this before but thank you!”

“This message came at the most appropriate time in my life! Thank you for doing what you do. It is so important to so many, many women, men, children, and parents of abuse that is so prevalent."

“I look forward to the weeks to come and to learn more. I hope this helps me to get my head around why I can't seem to break the cycle permanently.”

“A complete 180 from my marriage. I am living a life I always thought would never happen!”

“Well, you have helped me in a great way. Everything you explained is exactly how I have been feeling!”

“I simply just wanted to thank you for just being there for me. I cannot express how much finding your website has meant to me.”

“I am working on me thank you so much ❤️ thank you!”

“I am out of my hell and slowly getting my soul back.”

“Chris and Lisa, THANK YOU! I didn’t know until yesterday I was in a toxic relationship. I took your quiz and lo and behold the proof is in the pudding!”